Janus is the Roman God of the New Year – he looks both backward and forward. It depends how you use the past as to how your future will be.
If you view the past as a terrible time and expect ore of the same then the probability is that you will get what you predict. If you use the past as a learning process and learn from past mistakes traumas and problems you will hopefully not make the same mistake and will make a new decision based on your experience.
You will look forward positively and optimistically. The more that you find success with your new positivity the more positive you will become.
Set yourself small goals at first and as you focus on succeeding you may well find that your confidence grows.
Failure is there to teach us to do things better – so if you “fail” learn from it and next time “fail better”.
Hypnotherapy and NLP combined helps you learn how to move beyond your limitations and begin to view Life in a more positive light – so the negative mindset which limits your growth – becomes a thing of the past.
You can be greater than you thought – each of us has innate skills that are unique to us. So let Janus be your portal into a great Life.
I am a Hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner in Ipswich Suffolk and I enjoy helping people reach their potential.
Happy New Year
Graham Howes Advanced Hypnotherapist and NLP Ipswich Suffolk
I am seeing many people, at my Hypnotherapy Practice, in Ipswich in Suffolk, for a lack of Confidence or Low Self Esteem and Social Phobia.
It is a rough tough world sometimes but we have all achieved success at some time in our Life and so it is better to dwell on your success than it is your failure.
Failure teaches us to do things better – or it should! When we buy into failure we are essentially buying into that lack of confidence rather than remembering that we are all unique individuals with something to contribute.
Whether in Business or Life Social Phobia, Lack of Self Esteem or Confidence can really hold us back and block our success in Life.
Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better. – Samuel Beckett
We should regard Failure as teaching us and success as empowering us
“If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.” ? H.G. Wells
The point about when it goes wrong is for us to learn and move on and try again.
I use Hypnotherapy and NLP to help people whether they are in Business, and have Presentations to make, or someone just trying to cope with Life. I help people get in touch with their successful times and put the failures into context as a valuable tool. And how to grow your confidence. Many people are like the swan – gliding along elegantly while paddling like hell underneath!
It is learning the right strategies that can definitely help. One client of mine was suicidal and had a raft of problems and now has a responsible high powered job with a multinational! Anything is possible.
Set yourself a realistic goal – when you achieve it your confidence grows in your ability to do, not only what you have to do, but what you want to do. You earn then learn how to be confident.
About Graham Howes:
I trained as a Drama Teacher and acted Professionally for 39 Years. I have written plays and directed them. I have worked in very high level Businesses in Sales and Sales Support. I trained Telemarketing Teams.
Graham Howes Advanced Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner